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Whether school rumours are fuelled by jealousy or boredom or the power of being the person ‘in the know’, revelling in the misery of others is as old as time.

Are all school rumours bad?

According to researchers, everyone begins to gossip almost as soon as we learn to speak. It’s a part of human nature as word of mouth is joined by dozens of magazines, television chat shows, tabloids and now cyber gossip via Facebook, Twitter and blogging.

If you participate in school rumours

Gossip is like fast food…juicy, delicious, and bad for you. If you gossip all the time, your friends might not trust you with their secrets. They might feel you’d sell them out for a good school rumour to tell. Next time, just try walking away. If the person talked about is a friend of yours, stand by them and say you don’t believe it. Don’t repeat it.

If you are the target of a school rumour

While gossip boosts the self-esteem of those spreading it, creating a feeling of intimacy among the ‘in’ group, and serving as an emotional release valve for expressing negative feelings, it doesn’t at all help the person they are talking about.

If you are the subject of a false school rumour:

• Set the record straight, but don’t dwell too much on it.
• Try to get through the day as if nothing were different. Finding who started it and getting revenge might feel good for a moment but will only result in getting you into trouble and making you look guilty. THESE RESPONSES ARE BASED ON IMPULSES, NOT CAREFUL THOUGHT. Try choosing how best to respond rather than just exploding with emotion.
• After finding out the truth, confront the person calmly. LET THEM TRY TO EXPLAIN. If you don’t get satisfaction, talking to a teacher, parent or your school nurse might help.
• TIME WILL HEAL. The school rumour about you will soon be replaced with the next hot story of the week. Your composure might cause that rumour to die an early death.
TRUE FACT: Ignoring a rumour is always the best way to stop it!

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